Being A Good Wife: A Rough Guide

I am back!!  Alas, I was not taking a boating holiday, but rather tending to a hospitalised husband.  Nothing serious, thank the Big Man Upstairs, but it did get me thinking... 

Admittedly, I am not the kind of woman who subscribes to the self-help drivel the world seems so keen to inflict upon us - I have never read Eat, Pray, Love, nor will I ever - and I don't believe that there is one particular approach to marriage.  As varied as people are, relationships of all kinds are just as varied, and require their own special brand of care - oftentimes a formula only the individuals involved can understand.  It is (mostly) for this reason that I am particularly offended by couples who marry after so short a time.  How can one possibly know the person one is marrying, and how to care for a relationship that is for all intents and purposes in its infancy, if one has not spent sufficient time getting to know one's spouse prior to one's nuptials?  I use the passive voice (if that indeed is the passive voice) because I know far too many couples who fall into this category and it is not my aim to offend, merely to inspire independent thought.  But I digress...

Do Yourself a Favour and DIY!

DIY favours – who doesn’t love them!?  And why not!?  With so many brides opting to try out DIY decor and stationery, why not try favours? Not only does this trend give you the opportunity to keep costs low, but it also allows for as much personalisation as your heart desires.  Favours have moved away from the traditional piece of wedding cake or sugared almonds - thank God! - toward a more creative "whatever takes your fancy" approach.  Parasols or pashminas for the ladies, personalised test tubes of exotic teas or herbs, or a small potted plant are simply examples of homemade gifts that can be found at guest tables this past year.  And it's not likely to change in 2012!

{Trend} Top Knot? Yes, Please!!!

I am so in love with this style right now! It's so simple, yet so elegant, and can be worn anytime, anywhere. And you can do it at home! It's absolutely perfect for brides and bridesmaids alike; from loose, messy buns to smooth and sleek styles!

I was looking for a hairdo for my sister-in-laws wedding (I'm a bridesmaid!) and, after much searching and deliberation, I think I've finally found one! Hell, if Hilary Duff can rock the 'do, why not I?

Tamlyn and Rodney {Pewter and Purple}

We all know that us females of the species love looking at wedding photos!  Whether for inspiration, to dole out harsh judgement or simply because they're pretty, since film had been able to capture those special moments, women have loved looking at them!

For this reason I have decided to start featuring real weddings on my blog.  Since I'm hoping that you will share your special day with me, I thought it only fair I share my special day with you!  So behold and enjoy!  (And don't judge too harshly!)

Custom Colour Chalkboard Paint: How To!

So many brides, especially those with a bit of a fetish for rustic chic, are using chalkboard paint to customise various aspects of their weddings.  The applications are endless - seating charts, wine glass bases, pots for herbs as favours...

Getting In The Mood

So your man has popped The Question and your head is filled to bursting with ides for your Big Day - now what? You start looking through magazines, surfing the interwebs and asking advice of your friends... But what do you do once you've gathered everything together?

Why not make a mood board?

Awards Season!

So, it would appear that Hollywood is not the only community handing out awards this season! The interwebs is ablaze and I have been blessed with my very own Liebster Award!

*ROUND OF APPLAUSE*

Don't know what that is? Well, neither did I until my good buddy Emma of Random Ramblings bestowed one upon me and explained a little.

A Liebster Award is given to those bloggers with 200 followers or less to draw attention to new (or yet undiscovered) talent, and grow their following! If you are selected, pay it forward!

1. Choose five up and coming blogs to award with a Liebster - they must have less than 200 followers!
2. Show a big thanks to your Billy Crystal by linking back to them.
3. Post the award on your blog.
4. List and link to the blogs you will be awarding!